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HOW
TO: Rim
If you don't
enjoy or aren't even curious about rimming - licking a guy's ass
- then this page is not for you.
I personally
get off more on rimming a cute butt, than getting rimmed.
It's common
sense, to make sure that your partner is clean "down there" before
you dig in :-)
Position
is the key to doing an effective job here. Just as the 69 position
is popular with a lot of people for blow jobs - the 69 position
is the best, and my favourite, for rimming.
I
find it very erotic to have my partner straddle my face with his
ass with his body facing my legs. This allows me the most access
to his butt. A little like this.
When in this
position a lot of guys are tempted to lean forward and try to
rim you or suck your cock at the same time. When your partner
does this to you his butt rotates up and you have to strain your
neck and tongue trying to reach it. To avoid this tell him to
sit up, but also he should support some of his weight, otherwise
you might have too much of a good thing in your face and you may
find it difficult to breathe.
If you want
him to suck your cock while rimming him, then use your legs to
lift your hips upward. This should bring your crotch close enough
to his mouth for him to suck on you.
If your partner
insists on rimming you at the same time, and your back is pretty
flexible, ask him to use his hands to grab your legs by the backs
of your knees, and lift your ass in the air and closer to his
mouth. He should be able to rim you without leaning over too much.
Another good
position for rimming your partner is for him to be on all fours,
or even better, flat on his stomach with his legs spread widely
apart. Then you can really go to town on him :)
When it comes
to rimming it helps to have a lot of dexterity with your tongue.
The deeper your push your tongue the better it feels. The slicker
you make your partner's ass the easier it is for you. Use your
hands to spread his butt cheeks apart. An interesting experience
for your partner may be to get "hummed".
"Humming"
is pushing your face into his ass, with your tongue probing his
hole, and then moaning/humming out loud. A lot of guys probably
haven't experienced this kind of "vibration". Try it sometime.
When rimming
a guy, playfully lick, gently bite his ass cheeks. Squeeze them
with your hands, feel their texture.
Don't overlook
the "miracle inch". This is the area between the base of his balls
and his ass hole. For a lot of guys this is a super hypersensitive
area. Try giving it a good tongue bath.
Fingers can
be a mixed proposition. If you are going to finger your partner's
ass while rimming him, make sure that both - your finger and his
ass hole. - are slick with saliva, otherwise he may resist.
The skin
on your fingers is usually a lot rougher than you think. So having
a finger up there might not always feel good.
If you're
rimming a guy who is a complete top - it may be a big turn off
for him to have a finger, or anything, up his ass. Though if your
partner is versatile or a bottom, he may enjoy a finger or two,
or five *grin*. You'll have to ask him to find out. Also fingernails
may cause "snags" so be careful.
Rimming is
one of those acts, that's become a main stream fetish. If your
partner has never been rimmed before - encourage him to give it
a go and see how he feels. Chances are he'll love it. However
don't necessarily expect him to return the favour. |